For Younger Children:
Simplify the conversation and focus on basic privacy cues—like knocking and asking permission before entering each other’s spaces.
For Teens:
Shift from instructing to collaborating. Teens respond better to being part of the decision-making process.
For High-Stress Moments:
Delay the conversation until emotions settle. Trust grows from calm, not conflict.
FAQ
Q: What if my child refuses to talk when I knock?
A: Give them time and try again later. Let them know you respect their space but are available when they’re ready.
Q: How do I balance safety with privacy?
A: Create mutually agreed-upon rules—such as check-ins or shared expectations—so safety doesn’t feel like surveillance.
Q: What if I’ve broken their trust before?
A: Acknowledge it openly. Repair begins with honesty and consistent behavior over time.
Q: Is privacy important at every age?
A: Yes, though the level varies. Even small forms of autonomy help children feel capable and respected.
