Write the message on a sticky note or mirror instead.

Turn it into a holiday tradition with a new message each year.

Swap humor for encouragement if your partner is feeling nervous.

Involve festive themes like inside jokes or holiday puns.

FAQ

Q: Is this appropriate for everyone?
A: Absolutely—as long as the message is respectful and shared in good fun.

Q: What if my partner doesn’t like surprises?
A: Keep it gentle and optional. The goal is connection, not discomfort.

Q: Can this work outside the holidays?
A: Definitely. Random laughter is even better when it’s unexpected.

Q: Why does something so small matter?
A: Because tiny moments of playfulness often create the biggest emotional impact.