Introduction

The holidays have a way of turning ordinary moments into unforgettable memories. On the evening of our company Christmas party, I decided to add a little humor to the mix by writing a playful message on my husband’s chest—just a harmless joke meant to make him laugh while getting ready. What I didn’t expect was how that tiny act of silliness would spark confidence, connection, and a story we’d be laughing about long after the party ended. Think of this as a recipe for joy, seasoned with love and just the right amount of mischief.

Ingredients

1 supportive partner with a good sense of humor

1 washable marker (very important!)

A short, funny message

Holiday excitement

A pinch of spontaneity

A cozy home before the party chaos begins

Instructions

Set the Mood: Start while getting ready for the event, when nerves and excitement are both in the air.

Choose the Message: Keep it light, funny, and affectionate—something only the two of you will truly appreciate.

Write and Reveal: Write the message quickly and reveal it with a smile. Timing is everything.

Enjoy the Reaction: Laughter is the goal, but be open to surprises—confidence, flirtation, or an inside joke that lasts all night.

Carry the Energy Forward: Let that playful moment set the tone for the rest of the evening.

Serving and Storage Tips

Best served immediately before a special occasion.

The memory stores well and can be revisited anytime you need a laugh.

No cleanup required beyond soap and water—and maybe a kiss.

Variations